"Unexpected number of remote volumes marked as deleted" error

Good question, it should not delete things then, but the error message indicates that this is what is happening. You should see a message like Deleting 1 remote filesets in the log for the backup.

My guess is that somehow a remote volume is marked as deleted incorrectly, and then all the database queries pick up this problem.

If you can make a bugreport for the database, I can have a look and see if I can fix it, but it will be a week or two before I can look.