Please help me with my backup plan :)

You could run minio on your windows machine (Here’s a setup guide). Then setup Duplicati on your parents’ machine to back up their data to your machine. Now everyone’s data is on your machine which can then be backed up using Backblaze.

Although, you are right in noting that this will require you to keep your system up to date in order to maintain security. But it’s better you do it than leave it to your folks.